The Urbane Urbanite Checks In: The Seven Stars Resort in the Turks & Caicos

Friday, January 20, 2012

View from my suite (Photo: S. James)
If I could add an additional 1000 square feet to my apartment at home; swap out the hardwood for marble floors; throw in a master bathroom the size of a NYC studio apartment; and switch my drab view of Papa Johns with crystal clear blue ocean waters, my spot would look just like the rooms here at The Seven Stars Resort in the Turks and Caicos.

I feel so at home here; it's less hotel, more home away from home.

I soooo needed this getaway. The winter blues began to set in. I was starting to live in my feelings on a daily basis. Again. And just when I was on the brink of an inevitable wall slide, my beloved editor hit me up and asked me to review this beautiful resort.

Take a look at some pictures I shot of the 2 bedroom 2.5 bathroom suite I'm calling home.

Cheers!

www.sevenstarsgracebay.com

My welcome package! (Photo: S. James)

Living Room (Photo: S. James)

Master Bathroom (Photo: S. James)

Master Bedroom (Photo: S. James)

Full Kitchen (Photo: S. James)

Guest Bedroom (Photo: S. James)

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CHECK IT OUT: The Fire This Time Festival

Friday, January 13, 2012

"There is something terribly radical about believing that one's own experience and images are important enough to speak about, much less to write about and to perform " -James Baldwin

That quote by famed literary icon James Baldwin is a staple on the website for The Fire This Time Festival, and speaks to its mission to provide captivating, conscious portrayals of the black experience and offer a platform for early-career playwrights of African descent to explore new voices, styles and challenging new directions for contemporary theater.

The festival, which kicks off its third season on January 16 with a panel discussion on diversity in contemporary theater, includes a four-night limited engagement of seven eclectic ten-minute plays and five staged readings (the panel discussion and readings are free) presented by the Horse Trade Theatre Group. According to Derek McPhatter, a playwright and lead producer of the festival, the founding playwright and executive producer Kelley Nicole Girod created the festival out of her frustration with the limitations and expectations placed on black playwrights - and the jockeying a playwright has to do to be considered legit.

"It was [Girod's] experience, and mine as well, that the industry overall has a very limited view on what a black playwright should or can write," says McPhatter. "So, The Fire This Time Festival tells the playwrights they have free reign to write about whatever they want."

While there is no required theme or topic, last season, in the wake of high-profile bullying and gay suicides, several of the plays tackled homophobia. This season, audiences can expect to see riveting material about family dynamics, interracial relationships and bisexuality performed and interpreted by a multitude of talented actors, playwrights and directors from the black point of view.

"We've got folks performing and directing with credits on Broadway, television and film," says McPhatter, whose work was featured in the first season of the festival. "The artistic process with The Fire This Time Festival is pretty unique. The playwrights from the prior season make recommendations for future playwrights to engage. So we invite playwrights to participate on a sort of referral basis. It's worked really well so far, and has helped us diversify our artist roster. So, it's not just who the producers know or like. We [also] give the playwrights free reign to recruit whoever they want to work with as directors and actors."

Christopher Burris is directing Kevin R Free's work in progress, The Crisis of The Negro Intellectual: Dream One.  The two previously worked together on Free's uproarious comedy A Raisin in the Salad: Black Plays for White People, which had a very successful run in the 2010 New York City International Fringe Festival.

"The piece is a meditation on a few of the challenges associated with being Black and educated, and bougie in America," says Burris about Negro Intellectual. "As with all Kevin R. Free plays, one can expect - in addition to the catchy title -witty banter, keen commentary on the current state of racial politics, and people doing and saying things that they probably should not do or say."

Ultimately, the festival's goal this season is not only to pack the 99-seat Kraine Theater every night, but also to continue to break down the barriers and preconceived notions of black theatre.

"I want audiences to walk away inspired and entertained," says McPhatter. "I want audiences to leave with, hopefully, an expanded view of what's possible in contemporary theater, particularly black theater."

The Fire This Time Festival Tickets & Showtimes

  • Opening Date: January 16, 2012
  • Closing Date: January 25, 2012
The Kraine Theater
85 E. Fourth St.
New York, NY 10003

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MUST SEE FILM: Pariah

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

One of the most fascinating conflicts to watch on screen is the internal struggle of sexual expression. Only after watching important films like Pariah, does it become glaringly clear just how difficult it is to be your authentic self in a world where you feel there's no place to be the person that you know you are. Adepero Oduye brings that battle to life with her fearless portrayal of Alike (pronounced: Ah-Lee-Kay), a Brooklyn teenager who isn't really coming to terms with her sexuality per se, but more so struggling to figure out how, where and with whom she can be herself.

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The Urbane Urbanite And Friends Give Back For The Holidays

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

My Holiday Party Guests Piled Toys for Tots Near The Tree
I hosted my 3rd annual holiday party last weekend - and it was a success!

The sangria was flowing (until it was all gone); the food was hot (until the food warmer thingy blew out) and the DJ was spinning (until she was ret ta go). My guests had a great time. I couldn't have asked for a better night.

But this year I did something different. I teamed up with The Apostles' House whose mission is "to provide comprehensive social services to homeless and at-risk families and individuals in the Newark, [NJ] area in an environment that encourages and enables self-sufficiency." I received a text message from a friend stating that they were in need of toys for homeless children staying there this holiday season. So, in lieu of a bottle, I asked my guests to bring an unwrapped toy to donate to the kiddies at The Apostles' House - and they did not disappoint.

I had over 40 partygoers at my crib and ended up with 57 toys to donate to the children. There was everything from board games, remote control cars and basketballs to doll babies, building blocks and baby rattles. I was so excited to load up the car and take the toys the next afternoon.

See. It's important for you to really understand what this is about. It's not about the transformers, Dora desk or box of Legos. It's the fact that someone, a group of strangers, cared enough to make sure that they had something to open on Christmas. That's what will warm their hearts on Sunday. That's what at least one of them will remember when they are an adult who's able to to give back to someone in need. They will remember that feeling and want to pay it forward. See how that works?

When I dropped off the toys, I got the vibe that they needed help wrapping all of the gifts. I was tempted to offer my services, but I know better. I can't gift wrap worth a damn! They do NOT want my services in that department. Trust me.

I'll stick to what I know: rallying friends and family to donate and give back each and every year.

Happy Holidays!


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GET TIPSY: 5 Cocktails That Will Keep You Warm (and buzzed) This Winter

Tuesday, December 06, 2011


With the holidays looming and a brisk chill wafting through the air, ‘tis definitely the season for eating and drinking. While sizzling thirst quenchers like teas, hot chocolates and warm apple ciders will be bought and consumed by the boatloads this winter, what hot beverage options are available for folks looking to get lit - and stay toasted?

I commissioned the head bartender at 169 Bar, a down-home dive bar on the lower east side of Manhattan, to concoct five warm, charismatic cocktails perfect for keeping the cold at bay and a buzz on deck this winter.

I've tried them all - and they're good!

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Writing Tidbits From Aliya S. King: 5 Reasons Why You Can’t Stop Updating Your Blog

Friday, December 02, 2011

April 15, 2011. That date stares me in the face, mocking me, each and every time I fire up my computer. My homepage is my blog. And April 15 is the last time I updated. Nearly five months ago.

Once upon a time, I was a mega-super-blogger. I blogged five days a week, (sometimes seven), and I went in on that blog. I begged writer-friends for exclusive quotes, interviewed my favorite photographers, told my whole life story, chronicled my world as a mother, wife and writer. I shot commercials for new blog posts. (No. Seriously.) I assigned and edited a weekly guest blog spot. I hired an ombudsman. And a graphic designer. And then had the nerve to hire an assistant too. I treated that blog like a full-time job.

And then, (surprise, surprise), I burned out. Completely.

I’m the energizer bunny when I have a new idea, whether it’s blogging, Tweeting, running or dieting. I don’t do anything halfway. So when I decided to blog, I went all out. And when I found myself with nothing left to say, I couldn’t force it.

I stopped updating my blog. You should not. Here’s why.

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My Upstairs Neighbor's Bed Part 2: VIDEO PROOF

Monday, November 14, 2011


I don't offend easily. With close to ten years of rejection under my belt auditioning and working as an actor, I've grown quite the thick skin.

But I'm still an artist and very sensitive about my shit!

About a month ago, a friend and loyal reader of this blog made a comment about the post: My Upstairs Neighbor's Bed. He went on about how good he thought the post was and how much he enjoyed reading it. And then - like a rusty dagger to my heart - he asked: You made that up, right?

Listen. Del don't make up blog posts. EVER!

No disrespect to the bloggers out there on that James Frey flow; the ones who concoct misadventures and stretch the truths of their lives to entertain their readers. If that's your thing, fine! But it ain't mine.

Everything you read over here on my little slice of the interwebs is 100% true. Period. Besides, I'm a writer. If I wanted to hit you with a piece of fiction, not only would I do it, but I'd say point blank: Check out this fictional joint I wrote. You know, like when I shared my award winning short story with you guys last spring.

*Pops Collar*

And in this age of Oprah life classes and new wave introspection, I'm smart enough to know that [NAME REDACTED] questioning the credibility of the blog post was a) a compliment to my writing and storytelling ability and b) a way of letting me know folks actually really do read and pay attention.

So, [NAME REDACTED], I appreciate you for that.

But, still, it's imperative that I set the record straight and prove that my upstairs neighbor is, in fact, a jerk who considers sex on a rundown bedspring when stomping over my head isn't enough. So I did what any self-respecting, dignified blogger would do: Record him.

Allow me to set up the clip.

I'm laid out on my bed, steno pad, pen and flashcards strewn about as I study for the Praxis exam in January. And out of no where, I hear my upstairs neighbor's raggedy ass bed start to squeak and the "woman?" he's plowing begin to moan.

Pump up the volume and listen closely. Things get really saucy at about the 32 second mark. That's when he really finds his stride and starts to bring it on home!

Me? Make this stuff up? I think not!

video

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